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    You Can Find Better

    If you’re wondering if you can find better, you can. You can find someone prettier than who you’re with. You can find someone younger. You can find someone thinner. You can find someone with deeper blue eyes, a higher sex drive, and a better personality. If that’s not your thing, you can find someone who likes comic books, who loves alcoholics, or who doesn’t mind paying the bills while you play video games. That person is out there. And someone better than her is out there. And someone better than her is out there. Keep looking. You’ll keep finding better and better during each search. But what is it that…

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    Explain It To Me

    I don’t freakin’ get it. Why would anyone be afraid of getting a broken heart? Why would anyone be scared of being vulnerable? Why would anyone be worried about being taken advantage of? So what if those things happen. So what if it all ends and you walk away the better and more noble person for acting how you felt like acting. So what if you came to the table with an open heart, an honest want, and a trusting soul only to be let down. At least you engaged those items in yourself. At least you got to practice how other people want to be. At least you saw…

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    Be Beautiful

    Even if I have the wrong ways of showing it, I want the best for every single person I’ve ever encountered. I want you all to be good people. I want you all to live good lives. I want you all to feel the rush of accomplishment and the comfort of being loved by someone. I want everyone to scratch things off their to-do lists. I want everyone to pause in admiration of beautiful landscapes, beautiful people, and beautiful situations. And, I want everyone to turn the frustrations and face-plants that come before those successes into fuel. We may differ in views. We may differ in practices. We may differ…

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    Your Rights, My Flag

    You have the right to disrespect The Flag. You have the right to be unpatriotic. You have the right to criticize our country, our government, or even our way of life. And even though I don’t have the right to spit in your face while you do those things, the thought will probably cross my mind. You also have the right to go home after a day of protest and sleep in a building that will not be allowed to burn to the ground. You get to walk down streets that do not have animal feces, rotting waste, or burned out cars on them. And if you so desire, you…

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    Table for One

    The benefit of being single is not dating, not partying, not waking up with a hangover, and not waking up next to someone that you don’t love. The benefit of being single is not having to listen to a second, unsolicited, opinion about your choices or schedule. The benefit of being single is that your time is all yours. You can spend it however you want without offending anyone or feeling pressured to meet their expectations. The benefit of being single is that you can work on your own skills or wants without having to be considerate of anyone else. I love relationships. I love being in one. And I…