Telling someone to love themselves is pretty shitty. Telling someone to work on themselves is mean. Telling someone to make changes, alter how they eat, exercise more, look a certain way, or believe in themselves more is pretty fucking rude. Like how in the hell do you know what someone needs more than they do? Why are the things you did more important than the things they’re doing? What kind of insecure prick wants everyone around them to be doing the exact same things so they don’t feel like the incorrect one? And why didn’t you bother to find out what they want to do, why they’re being different, or…